Together with positive reinforcement, we need to understand the use of negative reinforcement—about using rules and boundaries and how the dog knows what is a wrong thing to do. There is no point ignoring unwanted behaviour as the dog will not understand it is something you do not want them to do.

It is very important for any dog who lives in our home to have a set of rules. This will help you all as a family to get along better. Rules also address the issue of leadership, which the dog will understand better; all dogs need this leadership, although each dog will differ with how much is needed.

With no leadership as guidance to them, the dog will believe they need to take that leadership role if they do not see it in their owners. Someone has to lead, take control, and protect the others.

This is the true goal of balanced style training; it is not about dominance.

It is very important that a dog has a “correction” or to be told “no” when doing something the family does not like and has overstepped the mark. Without realising, dogs are just doing dog things. It is up to each owner to have their own boundaries as each of us has different things that are important. You must be fair at all times; people and dogs make mistakes; shouting and hitting your dog will never be needed.